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Everyone, when first stationed in a foreign country, experiences culture shock to some degree.

Culture shock is a form of mental illness,
and the "victim" usually does not recognize it!

They may be irritable - depressed - everything seems to go wrong - they become increasingly frustrated about the “shortcomings” of the country and rarely realizes that the problem lies within themselves.

Culture shock is caused in part by (a) communication problems and (b) feelings of inadequacy.

a. Culture shock is precipitated when one loses his familiar communication signals and symbols such as:
 
  • when to shake hands, and what to say when meeting people,
  • when and how to give tips,
  • making purchases,
  • when to take statements seriously and when not.
b. Volunteers go to a foreign country believing they have something to contribute – but then discover that the time is too short - the pace of the country seems slow – colleagues seem uninterested – budgets are held up – necessary materials are delayed. They realize they can’t accomplish all they had planned - and their self-esteem and self worth is threatened.
The four stages of Culture Shock
Most of us go through four stages of a good, stiff attack of the illness:
Stage 1   We may feel positively euphoric at first. Probably the accommodation is adequate, the tourist sights are intriguing; the local people are courteous and helpful; we think a wonderful experience lies ahead. This is the Honeymoon phase.
Stage 2   Then, wham! Everything different is a problem. Misunderstandings seem frequent. The gratitude we expected for our help seems lacking. Perhaps the people aren’t friendly after all. Health problems may develop. Business methods are different. Our job satisfaction level is low. We feel like giving up and going home.
Stage 3   We begin to understand some of the behaviors of the people, and perhaps enough of the language so that our isolation is not complete. Some of the strange ways begin to make sense. Little by little the problems of living are worked out. The situation does not seem hopeless after all. Efforts to make friends begin to pay off. We begin to laugh again. We are on the road to recovery.
Stage 4   We learn to accept the customs of the country. We may not be enthusiastic about all of them, but we don’t chafe. There may be strains in our working relationships, but the basic anxieties are gone. We gain some sense of satisfaction about our work. Sometimes we realize that we are getting a kick out of the experience. We feel comfortable again. We have made some good friends, and will miss them when we leave.
The difficulties that lead to Culture Shock are very real.
How long does it last? Resilient people are over it in three months. Not infrequently it goes on for a year. Few people, when experiencing it the first time, are recovered in less than six months. The severity of culture shock depends upon several factors:
  your personality,
the extent of the differences between the cultures, and
the way you deal with new situations.
Does a case of culture shock immunize one against future attacks? NO
Future cases may be lighter, but different experiences can produce it time after time.
Culture shock – there is no immunization that will prevent it.
But knowing that it exists –
that an overseas assignment is apt to bring it on –
that it is not permanent –
helps to reduce the severity of the attack.

The person who expects culture shock
weathers the ailment much more easily than the one who doesn’t know he is ill.

Practical tips for surviving culture shock

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